Freestyle time

Freestyle time

After a month of staying here, I have a lot of things to tell about. The students here do not need to wear a compulsory which same as Asia, but they only wear what they like to the school as long as they not wear short is ok.

So, they here are known as freestyle. One more, they do not need to greet teacher by forcing, “class stand, good morning teacher!” not this type, but as they like, but most of them when teacher come in, they will say “good morning teacher.”

Once again, they will have a respect towards teacher because they are not force to respect teacher. You know that, teenagers like to against something that is stated, they want to be themselves, but if you didn’t set any law or regulations, they will automatically set the “law” in themselves. Therefore, they make something naturally without any force. That’s why they are so mature have an infinity imagination, ideas, as they used to have some space to grow and grow.



In a family, their parents didn’t limit their acts, but let it be. For example, when they want to talk, they give ways to the child even if adults are talking with each other, they stop for a few seconds to hear what the child wants to say about, and so this can let them get to know immediately what they want to know.

Then, they can remember the facts at once. Ok, as you see, in Asian family, when adults are talking, the child wants to say something to mum. Haha, this moment, the kids will be scolded by their parents that cannot mix in when “big people” is having a conversation. After, the child will forget what they want to say, and the facts, the new ideas, the imagination, the special things they want to know are gone. This is the best chance for them to widen their imagination, and their parents are just ignoring them.

That’s why Asian people have fewer inventors.

You don’t think that a small question will not give any affect to the child growth. “Why the sky is blue?” This question will attach millions neurons of the child’s brain. 1 year, you ignore your children 50 times, 50 times 1 million, you have minus 50 million neurons attaching in your children’s brain.

In addition, the European people are more open. Open means that they tell everything to their children without any range, I mean, it included rude words, 18 topics, relationship, love, politics, economic and so on. Therefore, their children get to know everything properly. In Asia, if some children ask their parents, “How baby come from?” at once, they will answer “Ask your teacher.” =_= Feel weird to tell, but you have to tell, this is your responsible.



You see, why “Horse race” people have many cases on under-age Crime? Because they have no education, they don’t know what it is and they want to know, so they do something. Education is the main point. The government denied this denied that, at last, they eat every peak moment themselves.

The cinema, TV3, TV2, TV1, advertisement, Astros, books and even radio, they cut away or **** the rude words and the 18 scene. No meaning to hear and see. Haha, I think they don’t know to use Internet but being act in reality. That is what you see in the News daily, include bank robbery, killing, bombing and fighting. This is a bad way to “grow”. For sure they learn something from those.


I see that my host mum’s grandmother, she don’t want to stay together with her daughter and her grandson, but she want to be free, because she think that her life is limited, so she want to use it wisely.

When busy, tell her to take care is ok, but when you want to go out with friends and call grandma to take care the grandson, she will deny. Because she thinks that, why you can go out with friends and I can’t. So, she want to do what she want that she don’t want to regret when she is away. Love your time.

Lastly, open minded education, space, and love your time is what I said today.



Cheers,
eDdY